As we all know, the atmosphere is very open, and the boundary between men and women is not so clear. It is not as rigid as the previous dynasties. It is said that free love may be overestimated, but it is true that people at that time lived a rather moist life, regardless of men and women. But there is a very strange phenomenon in this, that is, the famous families are not willing to marry the princess. What's the matter? Is it not good to be attached to the dragon? Let's talk about it briefly below Xiaobian.
If I really marry a princess, the benefits I want to bring must be people's, and I can keep the wealth forever. For those famous families, their status has been further improved, even a qualitative leap. But we can find in some records that most people are very resistant to marrying a princess.
In the old book of the Tang Dynasty, we can see that "(emperor Xianzong of the Tang Dynasty chose the son-in-law for the eldest daughter, Princess Qiyang) made the chief minister, Yu Qingshi, choose the gentlemanly people to live in the Qing Dynasty. Early in the literature backward choice, all speech disease should not The general meaning is that people turn a deaf ear to the matter of choosing a son-in-law, and pretend not to hear it when they hear it. This matter is very curious. What's the reason? Xiaobian thinks there are three points, just to tell you.
The provision of mourning ceremony, in mourning ceremony, decaying is the most important one, followed by Qi. There is such a stipulation in the book: "when a wife dies, the husband takes the gift of" Qi Shuai Zhang Zhou "(here refers to the anniversary of holding a staff in mourning). ）But if the princess died, the etiquette would be more complicated, and even the husband would cut off his wife for three years. " The concept of family is very important, that is to say, in the Tang Dynasty, people attach great importance to the concept of family, that is to say, the background of people who can marry a princess is also very important. In addition, the family background of the son-in-law should also have excellent family cultural tradition and family style, and even the relationship between parents should be enviable, which can ensure that a good marriage relationship can be maintained after the marriage with the princess, which is really, such a son-in-law is hard to find. Since princesses pee, there are few princesses who can repair the etiquette of women. Moreover, the culture of Tang Dynasty is very open. There are many princesses who are extravagant and arrogant, especially those who are jealous and cruel. In fact, it's not hard to find that the princesses of Tang Dynasty are very amazing. For example, Xiangyang princess has many lovers in private. There are many such examples, so it's not bad to say that the family of a famous family is not bad. There's no need to marry such a tyrannical wife to go home and make yourself unhappy.
So, it's not that you can't find your husband-in-law, but that the princess is really difficult to marry. Even if you don't marry a famous family and marry an ordinary person, I don't think you can match that ordinary person.
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