胡适的妻子如何防止婚外情:一把刀斩掉情丝-看世界

胡适的妻子如何防止婚外情:一把刀斩掉情丝

  这封信的封面是用英文写的“北京大学胡适博士收”,实际上它是由曹诚英的哥哥曹诚克自天津转的。当时,曹诚克在南开大学任教授。该信的邮戳显示,发信邮局是“天津府”。

  整个1925年,的日记记得很简单。但是,在这一年中,却发生了一件大事。这件事的本身是胡适在日记里刻意回避的理由。这年7月,他收到曹诚英的一封。

Throughout 1925, the diary is easy to remember. However, in this year, there is a big event. The incident itself is the reason why Hu Shi deliberately avoided it in his diary. In July of that year, he received a letter from Cao Chengying.

  这封信的封面是用英文写的“北京大学胡适博士收”,实际上它是由曹诚英的哥哥曹诚克自天津转的。当时,曹诚克在南开大学任教授。该信的邮戳显示,发信邮局是“天津府”。

The cover of this letter is written in English by Dr. Hu Shi of Peking University. In fact, it was transferred from Tianjin by Cao Chengke, Cao Chengying's brother. At that time, Cao Chengke was a professor at Nankai University. The postmark of the letter shows that the post office is "Tianjin government".

  为什么要这样呢?从信中的内容看,曹诚英似乎在担心被别人知道他俩的关系。因为她这样写道: “……我们在这假期中通信,很要留心!你看是吗?不过我知道你是最谨慎而很会写信的,大概不会有什么要紧……你有信可直寄旺川。我们现在写信都不具名,这更好了。我想人要拆,就不知是你写的。我写信给你呢?或由我哥转,或直寄往信箱。要是直寄信箱,我想你我的名字不写,那末人家也不知谁写的了。你看对吗?”

Why? From the content of the letter, Cao Chengying seems to be worried about being known about their relationship. Because she wrote, "well We need to pay attention to our correspondence during this holiday. Do you think so? But I know you are the most cautious and able to write, probably not important You can send a letter directly to Wangchuan. It's even better that we don't write with names. I don't know if it's you who wrote it. How about I write to you? Either by my brother or directly to the mailbox. If you send it directly to the mailbox, I don't think you and I will write my name, then no one else knows who wrote it. Do you think so? "

  这样的很让胡适痛心,他能感受到曹诚英不得不做一个无名无份的地下情人的委屈。而信的末尾一段更让他几乎要落下泪来: “……穈哥!在这里让我喊一声亲爱的,以后我将规矩地说话了。穈哥!我爱你,刻骨的爱你。我回家去之后,仍像现在一样的爱你,请你放心。……祝我爱的安乐!”也就是这句爱的宣言,让畏缩的胡适痛下决心,他要离婚,他要和娟结婚!

This makes Hu Shi sad. He can feel that Cao Chengying has to be an anonymous underground lover. And the last paragraph of the letter made him almost cry Brother Zhu! Let me shout my love here. I will speak in a proper way in the future. I love you. I love you with all my heart. After I go home, I still love you as I do now. Please rest assured I wish you all the happiness of my love! "That is, the declaration of love. Hu Shi, who is afraid of it, is determined to divorce and marry Juan!

  于是,胡适向江冬秀提出离婚!

Therefore, Hu Shi proposes divorce to Jiang Dongxiu!

  江冬秀反应的激烈大大出乎胡适预料。她拿着剪刀要刺胡适,被人拦下后,又冲进厨房拿了把菜刀,威胁胡适说: “你要离婚可以,我先把两个儿子杀掉!我同你生的儿子不要了!”

The intensity of Jiang Dongxiu's reaction was far beyond Hu Shi's expectation. She took scissors to stab Hu Shi. After being stopped, she rushed into the kitchen and took a kitchen knife. She threatened Hu Shi and said, "if you want a divorce, I'll kill the two sons first! I don't want your son!"

  胡适相信他那“庸俗的”妻子能够说得出做得到,他傻了,也清醒了。如果真的离婚,两个儿子的小命难保是其一,他胡博士长久以来精心维护的好名声也将毁于一旦而大失面子是其二。与其如此闹得人尽皆知,不如悄然舍弃自己的爱情。就这样,胡适妥协了: 不离婚了,让曹诚英去堕胎。

Hu Shi believed that his "vulgar" wife could say and do, and he was stupid and sober. If the two sons are divorced, one is that their lives are hard to protect, and the other is that his reputation, which Dr. Hu has carefully maintained for a long time, will be destroyed once and lose face greatly. It's better to give up your love quietly than to make everyone know. In this way, Hu Shi compromised: no divorce, let Cao Chengying abortion.

  “堕胎”一说,在胡适日记中当然是找不到的,而只是知情者说。

"Abortion" is not found in Hu Shi's diary, but only said by people familiar with the matter.

  曹诚英的苦楚,是能够想见的。她堕了胎,但无法堕掉对胡适的爱。为此,胡适在1926年写了一首诗《扔了?》:

Cao Chengying's suffering can be imagined. She had an abortion, but she couldn't fall in love with Hu Shi. For this reason, Hu Shi wrote a poem in 1926, throwing away

  烦恼竟难逃——还是爱他不爱?

Trouble is hard to escape - or love him not love?

  两鬓疏疏白发,担不了相思新债。

His hair is sparse and white, so he can't bear the new debt of Acacia.

  去求他,求他扔了我。

Go and ask him, ask him to throw me away.

  他说,“我唱我的歌,管你和也不和!”

He said, "I'll sing my song, even if you don't agree with me!"

  不久,曹诚英考入南京中央大学农学院,与后来的物理学家吴健雄、生物学家吴素萱同学。再后来,由胡适推荐,她考入胡适当年就读的美国康奈尔大学农学院。

Before long, Cao Chengying was admitted to the school of agriculture, Nanjing Central University, where he worked with later physicist Wu Jianxiong and biologist Wu Suxuan. Later, recommended by Hu Shi, she was admitted to Cornell University College of agriculture.

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